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The Gyalwang Karmapa’s teachings on Nagarjuna’s Letter to a friend

December 21, 2009, Tergar Monastery, report by Jo Gibson, Michele Martin, photos taken by Karma Lekcho, Karma Norbu

Day Two:  AM

report by Jo Gibson

The following  summary of the morning’s teachings is based on Ringu Trulku Rinpoche’s translation from Tibetan into English.

Gyalwang Karmapa began by reviewing yesterday’s discussion on ethical discipline, emphasising that practising ethical discipline was important for the world in terms of transforming society. Behaving ethically meant abandoning the ten non-virtuous actions. For householders who hold the lay vows, adopting ethical behaviour  can also be very helpful on an individual level; a couple who quarrel can create a harmonious relationship instead, for instance.

The Gyalwang Karmapa continued his teaching with an exposition of verse six. He explained that the previous verses had been applicable to both householders and those holding monastic vows, but the sixth verse is addressed specifically to laypeople.

Stanza Six

Possessions are ephemeral and essence less—

Know this and give them generously to monks,

To Brahmins, to the poor, and to your friends:

Beyond there is no greater friend than gift.

 

Stanza four had mentioned the six paramitas, one of which is generosity.  Three things needed to be considered with reference to generosity: the objects, the reasons, and the benefits. This verse explains the importance of generosity and who best deserves to receive it. There are two types of object: the higher ones, those who are a field of good qualities, which includes Brahmins, monks and nuns, and those who are  a field of benefit such as one’s parents.  The second group includes the poor and disadvantaged.  The reason for giving is that wealth is impermanent and unstable – as we can see from the present economic crisis – so the most effective way of using our wealth is to share it, even though we may have limited resources.

The benefit of giving is that ,  even if you give only a little it establishes predispositions for future lives and ensures rebirth in a good migration with good resources.

Stanza Seven

Keep your vows unbroken, undegraded,

Uncorrupted, and quite free of stain.

Just as the earth’s the base for all that’s still or moves,

On discipline, it’s said, is founded all that’s good.

 

This verse is an instruction for monks and nuns. Monastics have taken vows of ethical discipline and it’s important not to allow them to degenerate. One needs to give up all harming of others. The actions to be abandoned are the seven of body and speech, and the three mental actions that are the cause of the former. Hence, one trains in abandoning these by hearing, thinking and meditating. Ethical discipline should be uncorrupted meaning that it is not kept only because of concern for this life. It must be quite free of stain meaning  that ethical discipline  should not be solely for the purpose of future lives either. The basis of one’s virtuous actions should be the goal of attaining liberation and omniscience. The three precepts are ethics, concentration and wisdom, and ethical discipline is the basis on which we realise the latter. His Holiness observed that if we cannot control body and speech, we cannot control our minds. Even for hearing, thinking and meditating one needs one-pointedness of mind, and this too is difficult to develop without a base of ethical discipline.

Stanza Eight

Generosity and discipline, patience and  diligence,

Concentration and the wisdom of thusness-

Those measureless perfections, make them grow,

And be a Mighty Conqueror, who’s crossed samsara’s sea.

 

This verse gives more detailed instructions for monks and nuns and lists the six perfections.

As it is said in the Madhyamika-avatara,  if ethical discipline exists, the other five perfections grow and increase, but, without it, it is very difficult for the other five to develop. To become a bodhisattva is not easy.  A bodhisattva has to have great skill, real compassion and wisdom, and training in all six perfections in order to attain this.

Nagarjuna’s detailed instruction for householders, which follows, has nine parts, the first of which is to respect one’s parents.

Stanza Nine

Those who show their parents great respect

With Brahma or a Master will be linked;

By  venerating them they’ll win repute,

In future they’ll attain the higher realms.

 

His Holiness commented that we all come from many different backgrounds and life situations. He himself had  been able to meet a wide range of people, many of whom had love and respect for their parents, but some of whom had great difficulty doing this, so it was necessary to explore ways in which we could relate to this verse.  He himself had no problems loving and respecting his mother and father. His only problem was having little opportunity to do this. He suggested that perhaps he was not the right person to give instructions to those who did have problems doing so. However, there are many teachings in Buddhist texts on cultivating patience, kindness and compassion, and how to regard all beings as attractive.  Perhaps those who have difficulty loving and respecting their parents, he advised, could use these trainings, so that they abandoned feelings of  anger and hatred, and  practiced patience. In that way they could rid themselves of negative feelings towards their parents. As we as Buddhists must practice equanimity and show loving kindness and compassion towards all sentient beings, whether they are relatives and friends or not, if there were difficulties, perhaps we could include our parents  in the latter group.  Moreover, we need  to reflect on our past history, learn to forgive ourselves and others, and let go of  any painful or   negative feelings we may still harbour.

Stanzas Ten and Eleven

Eschew all harm, don’t steal, make love, or lie,

Abstain from drink, untimely greed for food,

Indulging in high beds, and singing too,

Refrain from dancing, all adornments shun.

 

For men and women who keep this eight-branched vow

And emulate the vows the Arhats took,

Their wish to nurture and to cleanse will grant

Them handsome bodies as celestial gods.

 

This second and third verses of detailed instructions to householders encourage them to take the eight Mahayana sojong precepts,  which can be divided into   4 root precepts , and 4 branches  and are taken for twenty-four hours. During Buddha’s time, the Buddha instructed his followers to observe the sojong precepts on the 8th, 15th and so forth of the month. It is said that those who had done so, when they heard one word of instruction from the Buddha, became Arhats.  By observing these precepts, His Holiness said, there will be great benefits in the next life.

He then introduced Verse 12, which lists actions and attitudes to be avoided by householders.

Stanza Twelve

Stinginess and cunning, greed and sloth

And arrogance, attachment, hate, and pride

(“I’ve breeding, good looks, learning, youth, and power”)—

Such traits are seen as enemies of good.

 

Question and answer session

Q.When I have a negative emotion like attachment and look into it, the emotion becomes stronger. What should I do?

His Holiness advised that there are many different ways to work on negative emotions.  He suggested that sometimes when you dislike a particular person, something has happened or they have done something to you, it can help to change your focus,   moving your mind away from that person or situation, in order to defuse the anger. This can help.

Q. Is it permissible to  support ourselves by selling dharma articles with the intention of benefitting others? Westerners need Dharma  articles.

His Holiness suggested that there were several things to be considered. If the motivation  were more than just a business, it might be  permissible, but one needed to consider how and to whom they were sold. For instance, there was the danger of selling them to people who would not respect them.

Q. Monks and lamas eat meat in Tibet, especially during Losar. Is this not a wrong thing to do?

His Holiness commented that the questioner seemed to know Tibetan custom! He then explained how, historically, because of the geography, climate and situation, there used to be little choice of food in Tibet, and it was very difficult to get vegetables  and so forth. Nowadays things had changed. New fruits and vegetables had arrived in Tibet,  particularly from China, and it was his hope that this would lead to a change in the Tibetan diet, so that monks and lamas eating meat would no longer be an issue.

Q. When there are too many mosquitoes, I kill them. I’m sorry. I don’t want to do it, but how can I stop it?

His Holiness commented that this was a difficult dilemma. The right conditions in terms of room, screens, nets, repellant and so forth could help.  However, it was essential for us to understand that although an elephant is very large and a mosquito is very small, the  difference is in size not value,  both are living beings. Thus, although a mosquito may seem small and insignificant it has life and it is probably wrong to take that life. Instead we should use our skills and  resourcefulness to find a solution which does not harm them. Talking from personal experience he said that a few days ago he had noticed that the anti-mosquito device that many people use here seemed to be killing the mosquitoes, so he didn’t turn it on and tried driving them away instead. That didn’t work and they continued to bite him in spite of everything. Then he developed a genuine feeling of giving.

“So at least I was giving my blood freely; they benefit  from receiving  it and I have the positive benefit of giving. I’m trying this, I’m not saying that everyone has to do this, but this is my current thinking.”

Q. Would His Holiness please give the refuge vows. How can we take His Holiness as root guru.

His Holiness  began his reply by saying that this question of the ‘root guru’ was something which had been bothering him for some time. He explained that usually when we use the term  ‘root guru’ it is in the context of  Vajrayana practice. The ‘root guru’ is the one from whom we receive an empowerment, the reading transmission and the root instructions. It is also possible, however, to have a ‘spiritual friend’. This is the person who shows us the right way, and instructs us in what is to be adopted and what is to be abandoned.

Gyalwang Karmapa explained that from his personal point of view he felt he did not have the qualities to be a root guru yet, although he was working hard  to develop them, and  it was his aspiration to gather all the genuine qualities that are necessary. However,  many people has placed their hopes, wishes and confidence in him, so, in order to encourage them, he accepted the role of root guru. He thought that he, the  individual Ogyen Trinley, did not have the qualities to be a root guru, but through his connection with the Karmapa lineage, there might be some benefit to people. Thus,  whenever he agreed to take someone as a student or to be their root guru, he visualised the great masters and took inspiration from them. It was important to understand that the focus should not be on him personally but on the lineage and the teachings of the lineage. Even someone with hundreds of negative qualities was worth listening to if they gave one positive instruction.  His Holiness reminded everyone that one of the four reliances instructs us to rely on the teaching(Dharma) and not on the person. “It’s the teaching that is great, not me,” he maintained, and advised everyone to take the teachings as the main guru and regard him as a spiritual friend; then there wouldn’t be any problems.

Gyalwang Karmapa concluded the morning session with two reading transmissions: Thogme Sangpo’s The Thirty Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva and the dedication prayer from Shantideva’s Way of the Bodhisattva.


Day Two:  PM

report by Michele Martin 

Today we will begin with discussing mistaken attitudes, or literally, “what is turned around the wrong way.”  Verse 12 reads:

Stinginess and cunning, greed and sloth,

And arrogance, attachment, hate, and pride

(“I’ve breeding, good looks, learning, youth, and power”)—

Such traits are seen as enemies of good.

 

When people are stingy, they’re unable to give to others. They can’t give  either the Dharma or material things, but must keep everything to themselves.

The next mistaken attitude is translated as “cunning” but actually it’s made up of two words.  g.Yo means that you conceal your faults and sgyu means that you pretend to have qualities that you do not, so there are two ways of being cunning.  “Sloth” refers to allowing ourselves to be carried away by laziness.

With pride, we think we’re something very special. We are puffed up, inflated with ourselves.  We are one hundred percent certain that you are a wonderful person, even if we actually don’t have so many positive qualities. We are so stuffed with the idea of our self that there’s no space for anything else. Our mind is obese. We think that we are some high ranking VIP. Or we think we’re special because we have tons of money or years of learning. No matter what positive qualities we may have, it’s important not to come under the sway of pride.

Of the three poisons, attachment comes in two kinds: attachment to people and to material things. Then, even though we may have all that we need and more, we still have aversion and feel the need to compete with others.  None of these mistaken attitudes are good for this life or the next.  They steal away our positive qualities and so they are seen as “enemies of good.” None of them allow us to make good connections with others, which is another reason why we should discard them.

It’s a tradition in India and Tibet that great masters are very humble. They say things like, “I really don’t know very much.”  “I haven’t studied a lot.” “I have no realization.” Now that the Dharma is spreading to the East and West, many masters are traveling and they still follow this tradition of humility.  However, some people assume that the masters are actually telling the truth and take what they say at face value:  “Well, if he doesn’t know, then there’s no need to take teaching from him.” They have not yet learned that this is an expression of humility. It is possible that someone could have false humility and harbor pride deep within.  Such a person is not a true practitioner.  So students have to understand this tradition of humility. When the teacher and students are of one mind, then something good can happen.

Real humility is felt deep inside. Even if we have many positive qualities, we understand how much more we have to learn. When we compare ourselves with others, we can see that what we know is like a drop of water in the ocean.  We feel a natural humility when we see the great qualities we have yet to attain.

It is important for us to practice love and compassion, to the point that they become inexhaustible. From our heart we wish that living beings be free of suffering and find real happiness. We want to extinguish all the suffering of living beings and be their servant. To be able to do this well, we have to work on reducing our pride. But we should not do this by putting ourselves down. The Supreme Continuum (Uttaratantra shastra) by Maitreya gives reasons why the Buddha taught about Buddha nature, (tathatagarbha). If we know that this essential nature of ours, (and that of all living beings), is basic goodness, the potential for full awakening, then we will not be discouraged or plagued by a sense of worthlessness. We should definitely not seek to diminish our pride by putting ourselves down because that will just make us feel hopeless. Instead, we can just think that there are many more qualities that we could attain and that now we are a small pond compared to the vast ocean of what is possible. This humble mind is what we need to develop.

Verse 13 concerns with being careful or conscientious.

Carefulness is the way to deathlessness,

While carelessness is death, the Buddha taught.

And thus, so that your virtuous deeds may grow,

Be careful, constantly and with respect.

 

We may have the name of a practitioner or call ourselves Buddhist but we may not really practice, so we are merely assuming these names.  What we should do, however, is examine ourselves to see what is positive and negative. In this way, we should be the witness for ourselves. As it states in The Seven Points of Mind Training: “Of the two judges, rely on the first.”  And the first is we ourselves.

This verse compares being careful and attentive to nectar. The word for nectar, or amrita, in Tibetan is made up of two syllables: Dud (Tib. bdud) refers to maras or demons, which actually refer to obstacles of various kinds, such as old age and sickness or the four traditional maras of the afflictions, fear of death, the aggregates, and worldly pleasures. And tsi (Tib. rTsi) here means “to get rid of.” So the word means that those who are able to recall the nectar of carefulness are able to eliminate obstacles. Such a person is a true Dharma practitioner. To avoid negative actions of body and speech, we look very carefully at our minds to make sure that a mara does not slip in, whether it is during or after a session of meditation.

This careful attentiveness is actually necessary for any kind of practice. When following the Vinaya, we need this carefulness and mindfulness, for example, in observing the five virtuous acts. In the Mahayana the mind is much more important than body and speech. We need to be aware and evaluate what is going on in our mind. This is even more true in the Vajrayana.

Verse 14 continues to speak of carefulness:

Those who formerly were careless

But then took heed are beautiful and fair,

As is the moon emerging from clouds,

Like Nanda, Angulimala, Darshaka, Udayana.

 

Here Nagarjuna speaks of first being corrupted by misdeeds and then purifying ourselves of them.  This process is likened to the moon escaping from behind the clouds. It tells us that change is possible.  The examples given are Ananda, who had strong attachment; Angulimala who killed hundreds; Darshaka who killed his mother, and Udayana who committed many negative actions.

So it is possible to purify even extremely negative actions, and this process happens through stages of purification.  First we regret what we have done and see it as a real mistake.  We make a confession in front of the Three Jewels or a lama; we vow not to do it again, and then we practice to purify it through reciting, for example, Vajrasattva’s mantra.  What is most important is that we see what we have done as wrong.  Fearing suffering, some people might still harbor some hesitation deep down inside and this will subvert the purification. So it is important to confess from our very depths.  When we can do this, it brings us true  joy and happiness.

We should not think, however, that we are all black inside. This would be an obstacle to our path of practice.  If we reflect on our present and past lives, the fact that we have made mistakes is not at all surprising. From our numerous past lives, we are not arriving here perfectly white; there are faults that we have not discarded; it is due to our karma and our afflictions, we have taken our present birth. What we have done wrong in past lives might be huge compared to this life.

So it’s good to recognize what we have done wrong, but we should not feel totally discouraged and think that there’s nothing to be done. We can change by recognizing our faults and then confessing.  And when we do this, it should be complete; we shouldn’t leave behind anything inside us. Confessing is like splitting an apple in half; we totally cut ourselves off from what is wrong.  For example, Milarepa worked very hard on building the towers to purify killing so many people.  We can look at this from two sides: from one side he was purifying his negative action, and from another side he was creating great joy.

 

 

 

 

 

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